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Monday, Mar. 17, 2003

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Yeah, I know I have a tendency to gush about The Huz at random intervals, but this gush comes to you as a Public Service Announcement for a Friend.

A Bedtime Story for T.

"Once upon a time, there was this girl who did theatre. Consequently, she met her share of messed-up boys. There was the slightly older man who was sort of her "mentor" in high school & college who turned out to be gay. Go figure. There was her "first," a very verbal Gemini with whom she played various mind games (and usually lost), and who would wander in and out of her life at various intervals, and who by some miracle is the only "ex" she actively speaks to, and is one of her closest friends (so there's one bright spot in this sordid tale). There were the various "showmances," the odd threesome (yeah, it was odd), the guy she dated for six months and got the "I like you a lot but..." speech from, who then did a cruise and met and married someone who looked just like her, and the bipolar headcase who she should never have touched with a ten foot pole. Then one day, she met a guy, a shy, quiet musician with a wry sense of humor, who tolerated her weirdness and flightiness and occasional borderline control freakiness. And in getting to know him, she discovered some things about herself. She learned that sometimes you have to work through all the drama just to find the peace. And that you don't need all the emotional highs and lows, that sometimes just coasting along on an even keel can be the best feeling of all. And that eventually, if you're lucky, you realize that there is a way you deserve to be treated. And if you're very lucky indeed, in a life that's included a lot of bad timing, your timing is really, really good this time. And you find him when you're ready for him and he for you.

And you sort of live happily ever after.

Don't spend the rest of your life wondering 'what if?' Don't miss that chance."

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